Saturday, December 10, 2011

Bucket List? Nah!


I was looking at someone's blog the other day and noticed a tab for a "bucket list."   My daughter told me that she has a bucket list.  I've never had a bucket list, although I set goals.  I've seen the movie, "Bucket List" and liked it alot.  I even cried.  But all of this got me thinking . . . why don't I have one and if I did, what would go on it? 

(And now that I'm thinking about it, I'm not sure I need a bucket list.  I'm the kind of person who doesn't need to know all the answers to life's greatest questions.  I know enough.  The rest I take on faith.  And I guess the same thing applies to bucket lists - I don't need to DO a lot of things or GO to a lot of places to feel happy.   And maybe that's not even the purpose of a bucket list.   I don't really know.)   But . . .

Before I was married, a friend and I went on a trip across the United States.   We quit our jobs, packed our tent, and headed off.   We were gone for three months and saw a ton of places and had some great experiences.   It was an awesome once-in-a-lifetime trip.  I suppose that's something that could go on a bucket list.   If I did do a bucket list, I should probably start from now, though - not put a bunch of things that I've already done and then cross them off.   That would be cheating.  So, I guess something I would like to do is go on a ghost hunt.   Sounds kind of dumb, I know.   But that would go in my bucket.  I don't have many other things to go in it.  I probably wouldn't even need a bucket - - I think a little mug would do. 

But, for sure, what I would really like to see happen before I die is that all of my children are happily engaged in life (hopefully married and with their own families).  That would be my ultimate bucket list wish :) 

10 comments:

  1. If I ever make a bucket list it will have things on it I might actually do. I don't want to stress about how much it's going to cost. I don't want to stress about the travel involved. I like being places, but I dread the logistics of getting there. If I ever have a list, it's going to be low maintenance. I guess I'm just boring.

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  2. I don't have a bucket list, and I don't have enough to fill a mug list either! I am so happy with the things I've done in life, anything that happens now is just sprinkles on top of a darn good banana split.

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  3. I think I have two things .. wait .. maybe more than 2 .. but I want to get a decent focused moon shot and a rainbow shot .. not necessarily at the same time .. and I want to go to Hawaii and Montreal .. I guess I might need to start an actual list ..

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  4. Just had to say that I think you should absolutely do the ghost hunt ;)

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  5. Lol! I only have a bucket list because if I don't make lists I forget :) But I love your idea of a mug list.

    Btw, going on a ghost hunt is on my list :) So, no, it doesn't sound dumb. Not at all.

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  6. Kassie, my sisters and I used to get a little creeped out in our house in Anaheim. The house has been long gone (thanks to the 5 freeway), but it always felt . . . weird :). A ghost hunt is definitely on the top of my wish list!

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